Whether we come from different color, ethnicity, race, and sexuality we are all the same. The core of humans are the same, even if our external is not. Once we as humans realize this, life becomes much easier. But unfortunate instead of accepting this and dealing with it, we end up distracting ourselves with what I call “noise”. Noise can be anything that is NOT dealing with the truth, it can be social media, technologies, facebook, Instagram, video games, etc.
Next time you get sucked into “noise”, STOP yourself and ask yourself what you are hiding from and why.
As degrading as it feels to be embarrassed or ashamed in front of others, at times it is truly necessary to allow the selfish and dignified mankind to go farther on in life and progress. To ever feel that you are better than everyone is to have failed at life. It shows how insignificant you are as a person, and how narrow-minded your thought process actually is. To think that you are better than everyone and act such a way is equivalent to your lack of experience in life. Either that, or your lack of self confidence.
Such experiences are momentarily and they surpass before you know it. Just like pleasant experiences, unpleasant ones also pass us. Eventually we do forget about them, and move on with our lives. But not before it has taught us a lesson.
We should be happy that we can still feel a certain way, even if it’s not the best feeling one could feel. Every single emotion will causes various behavioral changes during the present, but also effects how we react to certain situations in the future. Emotions, whether positive or negative causes change. Change is always good, whether it’s for the better or worse. You may be surprise, but it’s true. Some may say that an adverse characteristic to have as an individual is dependency. Alongside with change comes independence, which makes you a stronger person as a whole without needing to rely on others to gratify certain needs.
To feel sad is good, because then you’ll know what happy feels like.
To feel angry is good, because then you’ll appreciate being calm.
To feel rushed is good, because then you take your time when there is time.
Because we are human. What it entails to be human is greed, selfishness, self centeredness, and our lovely frontal lobe which is responsible for all the things that I just mentioned. I think the worse curse on humanity is greed. No other animal has it. Only the human. The main reason is to of course advance in life. But at the end, does it really matter how much you advance if you’re already successful and making a 6 figure income?